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Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text
Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.28,0:00:03.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stop crying
Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.91,0:00:04.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stop with the tears
Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.85,0:00:05.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't cry
Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.49,0:00:06.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pick yourself up
Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.23,0:00:07.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stop with the emotions
Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.14,0:00:07.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't be a pussy
Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.91,0:00:08.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't let nobody disrespect you
Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.86,0:00:09.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be cool
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.66,0:00:10.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And be kind of a dick
Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.70,0:00:11.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Always keep your mouth shut
Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.27,0:00:12.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nobody likes a tattle-tale
Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.40,0:00:13.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bros come before hos
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.74,0:00:15.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't let your woman run your life.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.15,0:00:15.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're a bitch.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.76,0:00:16.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What a fag.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:16.64,0:00:17.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Get laid.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.23,0:00:17.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do something.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.91,0:00:18.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be a man.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.38,0:00:18.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be a man!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.87,0:00:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Grow some balls!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.23,0:00:27.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The 3 most destructive words
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.14,0:00:31.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that every man receives when he is a boy,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.52,0:00:32.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is when he's told to be a man.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.50,0:00:35.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We've constructed an idea of masculinity \N
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.40,0:00:36.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the United States
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.68,0:00:38.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that doesn't give young boys
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.52,0:00:40.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a way to feel secure in their masculinity.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.23,0:00:42.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, we make 'em go prove it all the time.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.31,0:00:44.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Within their peer group culture
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.84,0:00:46.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,each of them is posturing
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.31,0:00:48.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,based on how the other boys are posturing,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.20,0:00:49.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what they end up missing
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.46,0:00:51.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is what they each really want,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.50,0:00:52.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is just that closeness.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.82,0:00:55.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In good times guys are,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.40,0:00:56.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like, really close to each other,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.11,0:00:58.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but when things get a little bit worse\N
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.57,0:00:59.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're on your own.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.10,0:01:00.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,From middle school
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.13,0:01:02.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had four really close friends.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.03,0:01:03.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Once I went kind of went into high school,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.24,0:01:05.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I struggled finding people I can talk to
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.42,0:01:08.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I feel like I'm not supposed to get help.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.02,0:01:10.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our kids get up every morning.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.62,0:01:11.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They have to prepare their mask
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.28,0:01:13.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for how they're going to walk to school.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.08,0:01:15.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A lot of our students don't know how
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.14,0:01:16.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to take the mask off.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.37,0:01:17.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is it you don't let people see?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.30,0:01:21.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Almost 90% of you have pain and anger \N
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.59,0:01:23.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the back of that paper.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.72,0:01:24.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you never cry
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.60,0:01:25.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you have all these feelings
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.11,0:01:27.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stuffed up inside of you,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.54,0:01:28.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then you can't get them out.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.24,0:01:30.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They really buy into th-a culture
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.98,0:01:32.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that doesn't value what we feminized.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.98,0:01:34.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we're in a culture that doesn't value caring,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.22,0:01:36.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doesn't value relationships,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.83,0:01:37.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doesn't value empathy,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.40,0:01:40.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are going to have boys and girls,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.86,0:01:41.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men and women go crazy.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.21,0:01:44.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had anger issues in high school.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.14,0:01:45.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I felt like an outcast.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.46,0:01:48.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've been suspended at least once\N
Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.39,0:01:49.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,every year I was here.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.80,0:01:50.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We would just look for trouble
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.28,0:01:52.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and just like, try to fight.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.03,0:01:54.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Boys are more likely to act out,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.91,0:01:56.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're more likely to become aggressive.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.75,0:01:58.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most people miss that as depression,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.37,0:02:00.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or see it as a conduct disorder,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.78,0:02:02.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or just a bad kid.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.81,0:02:08.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I felt like just giving up on life, you know,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.38,0:02:09.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,see I had suicide thoughts
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.19,0:02:11.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in my head in sixth grade.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.78,0:02:14.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I felt alone fer-for a long time,\N
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.34,0:02:17.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I actually thought about killing myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.07,0:02:21.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whether it's homicidal violence,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.42,0:02:22.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or suicidal violence,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.75,0:02:25.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people resort to such desperate behavior,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.23,0:02:26.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,only when they are feeling
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.17,0:02:27.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shamed and humiliated,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.91,0:02:29.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or feel they would be
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.30,0:02:31.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if they didn't prove that they were real men.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.79,0:02:34.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're told from day one
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.43,0:02:35.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'don't let nobody disrespect you',
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.23,0:02:38.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and 'this is the way you handle it as a man',
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.84,0:02:40.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,respect is linked to violence.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.66,0:02:43.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I can man up,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.37,0:02:44.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why step down from that,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.70,0:02:45.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you feel me?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.74,0:02:46.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like instinct.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.74,0:02:51.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So man up!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.46,0:02:51.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Man up.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.90,0:02:52.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Man up.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.36,0:02:52.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Man up.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.66,0:02:53.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Grow some fucking balls!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.99,0:02:54.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Act like a man.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.81,0:02:55.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be a man.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.63,0:02:56.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be a man!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.96,0:02:57.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For my kids,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.87,0:02:58.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was gonna end this
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.89,0:03:01.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hyper masculine narrative here.